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Capt John Heaphy “Jack” Fellowes

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Capt John Heaphy “Jack” Fellowes

Birth
Buffalo, Erie County, New York, USA
Death
3 May 2010 (aged 77)
Annapolis, Anne Arundel County, Maryland, USA
Burial
Annapolis, Anne Arundel County, Maryland, USA GPS-Latitude: 38.9882499, Longitude: -76.4902509
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Retired Navy Captain Jack Fellowes, 77, died at his Pendennis Mount (Annapolis) home on Monday afternoon May 3, 2010, from congestive heart failure.
Jack and Patricia Catherine (Watkins) Fellowes are parents of four children: Cathy, Sharon, John, Jr., and Tom.
A member of the Naval Academy Class of 1956, then-LT CDR Jack Fellowes was the pilot of an A-6A Intruder, a two-seat bomber. On Aug. 27, 1966, Fellowes and his bombardier-navigator, LTjg George Coker, took off from the deck of the carrier USSConstellation It was their 55th mission together, and the target was a pontoon bridge near the town of Vinh, North Vietnam. As the plane approached the target, Fellowes said later, antiaircraft fire tore off its right wing. Fellowes and Coker ejected, and both fractured bones in their backs. They were captured about a mile from each other. Fellowes and Coker saw each other occasionally soon after being captured, but then were held for four years without seeing each other.
They bumped into each other when the North Vietnamese were reorganizing their prisons and prisoners. "It was Christmas 1970, and there was Happy Jack, standing right there!" Coker said, using the nickname so many people used for Fellowes. "He would dislike you for lying to him, but he would like you for standing up to him," Coker said. "He was a gentle giant; he was as tough as nails. He didn't look tough, he didn't talk tough, he didn't act tough, he just was." Coker, who went on to retire from the Navy with the rank of Commander, said Fellowes had an infectious sense of humor.
After returning to the United States, he said, he and Fellowes had a running joke as to which one of them was incompetent. "He claimed my navigator got us shot down, and I claimed it was his lousy flying," Coker said.

Life as a POW: During his time as a POW, Fellowes was held in five prisons, including the infamous "Hanoi Hilton." At times, he was beaten, tortured and nearly starved. "My lowest point during those years was 10 Sep, 1966," Fellowes wrote in a 1976 edition of U.S. Naval Instituted Proceedings magazine. "After a 12-hour torture session in which I resisted my captors attempts to force a statement condemning my country, I lost the use of both arms for the next four months." "In prison we had considered ourselves losers," he wrote. "Here we were, sitting out the war while our shipmates had to take over our duties. We never labeled this 'heroism.'" Fellowes told of having to eat "grass soup" to stay alive. Fellowes spent six years, seven months and 22 days as a prisoner (released on March 4, 1973). He said he had some bad dreams about the experience, but overall was able to adjust to being home, back with his family. "If you can't adjust to a hot steak and a cold beer, you have got problems," he said.

Staying busy: Fellowes was born in Buffalo, NY, and grew up in Tucson, AZ (graduating from Tucson High School in 1950 and the Hill School in 1951); He retired from the Navy in July 1986, after which he often volunteered at the Naval Academy, mentoring midshipmen and talking to them about the meaning of leadership and the importance of integrity. He also did a lot of volunteer work for the Naval Academy Athletic Association, in particular, for the home football games. Jack had served as the varsity football team's Officer Representative while stationed at the Academy after his release as a POW, and was an ardent fan and supporter.
He also worked part-time in the Maryland General Assembly mail room and worked with the Annapolis Police Dept., where he was hired in June 1993 as a liquor inspector, the department said. At the police station, Fellowes was known to the public as the man who fingerprinted citizens who wanted a record of their prints, a police spokesman said.
Retired Navy Captain Jack Fellowes, 77, died at his Pendennis Mount (Annapolis) home on Monday afternoon May 3, 2010, from congestive heart failure.
Jack and Patricia Catherine (Watkins) Fellowes are parents of four children: Cathy, Sharon, John, Jr., and Tom.
A member of the Naval Academy Class of 1956, then-LT CDR Jack Fellowes was the pilot of an A-6A Intruder, a two-seat bomber. On Aug. 27, 1966, Fellowes and his bombardier-navigator, LTjg George Coker, took off from the deck of the carrier USSConstellation It was their 55th mission together, and the target was a pontoon bridge near the town of Vinh, North Vietnam. As the plane approached the target, Fellowes said later, antiaircraft fire tore off its right wing. Fellowes and Coker ejected, and both fractured bones in their backs. They were captured about a mile from each other. Fellowes and Coker saw each other occasionally soon after being captured, but then were held for four years without seeing each other.
They bumped into each other when the North Vietnamese were reorganizing their prisons and prisoners. "It was Christmas 1970, and there was Happy Jack, standing right there!" Coker said, using the nickname so many people used for Fellowes. "He would dislike you for lying to him, but he would like you for standing up to him," Coker said. "He was a gentle giant; he was as tough as nails. He didn't look tough, he didn't talk tough, he didn't act tough, he just was." Coker, who went on to retire from the Navy with the rank of Commander, said Fellowes had an infectious sense of humor.
After returning to the United States, he said, he and Fellowes had a running joke as to which one of them was incompetent. "He claimed my navigator got us shot down, and I claimed it was his lousy flying," Coker said.

Life as a POW: During his time as a POW, Fellowes was held in five prisons, including the infamous "Hanoi Hilton." At times, he was beaten, tortured and nearly starved. "My lowest point during those years was 10 Sep, 1966," Fellowes wrote in a 1976 edition of U.S. Naval Instituted Proceedings magazine. "After a 12-hour torture session in which I resisted my captors attempts to force a statement condemning my country, I lost the use of both arms for the next four months." "In prison we had considered ourselves losers," he wrote. "Here we were, sitting out the war while our shipmates had to take over our duties. We never labeled this 'heroism.'" Fellowes told of having to eat "grass soup" to stay alive. Fellowes spent six years, seven months and 22 days as a prisoner (released on March 4, 1973). He said he had some bad dreams about the experience, but overall was able to adjust to being home, back with his family. "If you can't adjust to a hot steak and a cold beer, you have got problems," he said.

Staying busy: Fellowes was born in Buffalo, NY, and grew up in Tucson, AZ (graduating from Tucson High School in 1950 and the Hill School in 1951); He retired from the Navy in July 1986, after which he often volunteered at the Naval Academy, mentoring midshipmen and talking to them about the meaning of leadership and the importance of integrity. He also did a lot of volunteer work for the Naval Academy Athletic Association, in particular, for the home football games. Jack had served as the varsity football team's Officer Representative while stationed at the Academy after his release as a POW, and was an ardent fan and supporter.
He also worked part-time in the Maryland General Assembly mail room and worked with the Annapolis Police Dept., where he was hired in June 1993 as a liquor inspector, the department said. At the police station, Fellowes was known to the public as the man who fingerprinted citizens who wanted a record of their prints, a police spokesman said.


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  • Find a Grave, database and images (https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/52504991/john_heaphy-fellowes: accessed ), memorial page for Capt John Heaphy “Jack” Fellowes (22 Nov 1932–3 May 2010), Find a Grave Memorial ID 52504991, citing United States Naval Academy Cemetery, Annapolis, Anne Arundel County, Maryland, USA; Maintained by Sandy Darling (contributor 39805345).